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My local church had a special service this past Sunday, apparently it was to do with being a “welcoming” congregation…I didn’t go…In fact I haven’t gone for several weeks! In some ways it’s great that there is a focus on such things, but my predominant emotion toward such an event is one of sadness – the very fact that a church needs to invite someone in to speak on such a topic makes me wonder! Where is the church at? Surely it cannot be in a good state if it doesn’t even know how to welcome people into its midst?
I wonder how many of us have walked into churches and felt like an outcast. Why is that? Why is that so many of us feel judged rather than accepted?
The characteristic of hospitality is essential to church and especially to its leaders. If it fails at that, there is not much hope. The apostle Paul wrote to his associate Titus, when advising him on who to look for to fulfill the position of overseer, commanded that they must “be hospitable…” (Titus 1v8) When writing to Timothy, his young co-worker, we find him saying the same thing, “…now an overseer must be above reproach…respectable, hospitable…” (1 Timothy 3:2)
I find it intriguing, out of all the characteristics we place as important for the leaders of our church, so often we miss this KEY FACTOR – that of hospitality – the embracing of others, of welcoming, of being generous with oneself. God himself is hospitable – he is someone who embraces people from all backgrounds and walks of life. If only the church could grasp the heart of God instead of trying to formulate methods and systems that are based on legalistic structures than hinder and hurt rather than release and embrace!
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2 Responses to Welcome to Church?!?!
Rus
October 29th, 2009 at 12:35 pm
>Good points. So much I'd like to say but I'll leave it at this: With the stigma attached to "traditional church" I don't know if visitors would ever feel welcome on a Sunday morning until that perception is changed. It's why the church needs to go "out" as opposed to expecting them to come in, IMO.
Ruth
October 29th, 2009 at 1:57 pm
>I have been asking 'What is church?' Is it an organisation, a club, a society?
What did God intend church to be? What makes a good leader? What did God intend for leaders to be?
I love the story of the Good Shepherd. He went looking for the lost sheep, leaving the 99 alone, without a guard and vulnerable. What does that say to us about church leadership?
Peter messed up big time, so did David, but David was a man after God's heart, who led the people.
Have some church leaders taken on the ways of leadership styles in the world rather than Biblical leadership?
What about the 99 left behind. Anyone or any animal could have joined them. No-one to protect them other than their unity. Do the church want to risk allowing anyone in or are they too afraid of their reputation and their own emotional wounds to embrace the lost and others who are wounded?